Hey everyone! It has been a little while since we've posted to the blog. Our last post was in June, and then the 2018 wedding season hit in full force. It was an amazing season - so many beautiful weddings, incredible designs, and fun couples. Each one was unique and an honor to be a part of.
As our 2018 season is winding down (just two more weddings to go!), we are finding some time to reflect on this past year and get excited for next year. Our hearts are so full of gratitude: Gratitude for the couples who have trusted us with their weddings, gratitude for our hardworking team who are invested and excited about our work, gratitude for our family's health, gratitude for how far our business has come, and gratitude for the journey ahead.
After a very busy stretch in September and October, we decided to take a little family trip to get some time away. We spent the last week catching up with friends in Tennessee and family in Indiana. We flew into Nashville, ate all of the fried things, and too many biscuits to count. If you are ever in the Nashville area you have to go to Biscuit Love and The Loveless Cafe - two of our favorites!
We drove from Nashville to Bloomington, Indiana, where we took an accidental wrong turn. If you are ever going to make a wrong turn in your life, the midwest in Autumn is the time and place to do it. We took back country roads for an hour and wound through the most spectacular fall trees we had ever seen! It was like something out of a movie or a painting - totally breathtaking (and making me think of some fun autumn installations I want to try next year).
We have a tradition each year of listing the things we are thankful for in November. Every day, we each take a scrap of paper and write down one thing we are thankful for. It's such a simple thing to do, but it's impact is large. This year has been especially sweet for our family because Luci is old enought to write her own.
Thank you for following along with our journey. We are grateful for you.
Tyler + Taylor Speier
[Tay Here]. A few months ago Ty and I went out for date night and ended up wandering into Hotel Californian for a nightcap. This hotel is new to downtown Santa Barbara and has the greatest vibe! We got to talking with the bartender there, and after learning that Ty's favorite drink was a negroni, she recommended that we try her personal favorite drink: The Last Word. We were immediately intrigued by the name and when we asked her what it was like, she responded with "herbaceous."
You guys, we order this drink all of the time now when we go out - it's our fav - but I now have to listen to Ty say the word "herbaceous" in public. Face. Palm. Call me weird, it just sends shivers down my spine. Shhh, husband. Enough with the word.
This drink is easy to make and so delicious. It's the perfect cocktail to serve as we welcome the spring season. We hope you enjoy it as much as we do.
[Ty here]: When we're making a cocktail, we like it to be:
So, here's how you make a Last Word!
All you need is equal parts:
Gin (we love Hendrick's, but any Gin will do)
Add equal parts to a cocktail shaker with some ice, shake it, and pour!
That's it. And it's HERBACEOUS and DELICIOUS.
(Picture of what Chartreuse and Marchino Liquor look like is below...so you don't get lost in your local liquor store!)
Tay & I are so excited to be launching this new blog! We are going to be sharing real weddings, wedding planning tips, entertaining advice, lifestyle inspiration, and so much more. Our goal is for this blog to give you a little glimpse into our family's life in Santa Barbara, California, as we plan beautiful weddings and navigate the joys and challenges of marriage, raising children, and owning a business.
I started Tyler Speier Events back in 2009 as a "hobby business." At the time, Taylor and I were dating, and it was an adventure we worked on together to earn some extra money for our own wedding (and to pay for school). It was hard work. A few years later, in 2012, we got married ourselves, and got the opportunity to experience wedding planning as the bride and groom, which gave us a new perspective.
In 2015, as this "just-for-fun" business began to gain popularity, we made one of the scariest decisions of our lives: I was going to quit my full-time job (working in the nonprofit industry) and we would become full-time small business owners. At that time, we had a 2-year-old daughter, a foster child, and a small home - no office, no formal "floral arranging studio" (yes, I did flowers in my kitchen for the first 7 years). It was terrifying, but exhilarating. And it was one of the best decisions we have ever made.
Here we are, at the beginning of the 2018 wedding season. Our family has grown - Tay and I are continuing to navigate and balance having two kids, (Lucia & Wesley, ages 4 and 8 mo.), running a growing and thriving business, and all of the adventures that marriage, parenting and life bring. We have the privilege of collaborating with so many talented artists to create incredible weddings. We work very hard, learn from the challenges we face at home and in the workplace, and are growing every day.
Looking back at starting this in 2009, we never dreamed that we'd be where we are now. I have the honor and privilege of doing what I love every day. I feel alive, inspired, and ready for whatever the next chapter brings. And for that, I am so thankful.
We are excited to share our ideas, inspiration, and life with you.
Tyler S. Speier